I have been an educator for 15 years. When I got out of college in 1997 with my Bachelor of Music in Music Education…the implied message that was given was…”Congratulations, you are ready to be a teacher…go shape young minds!” That message could not have been farther from the truth. I was not ready to shape young minds…my “young mind (at 23)” was still being shaped. Please understand, I am not making a case here for not allowing people to start teaching at 23…. I believe the teaching field is constantly in need of the infusion that comes from each group of “green, young” teachers. New teachers have not been jaded by the realities of “public school life.”
Back to the point I was leisurely driving toward, I was sold a bill of goods at graduation. You get out of college and there is easily as much that you DON’T know as there is that you DO know…sprinkled with a large dose of things you THINK you know…but are WRONG about (not to mention the stuff you WISH you had known). A much better message to give to teachers just graduating from college is this: “Congratulations on graduating with your degree…time to fill the void created by teachers who couldn’t hack it and left, needed more money than education offered and had to move on, or retired to come back a substitutes teachers. You have a head full of book knowledge, but if there is anything the onslaught of standardized tests have taught us…book knowledge does not adequately teach you to function in reality…so a lot of your book knowledge will do you no good…so anyway best of luck in your first teaching gig, which will be nothing like student teaching. Keep an open mind and remember to ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS look for opportunities to keep learning your craft. You will never know everything about successful teaching……It will always just be one more piece in a 1,000,000,000 piece jigsaw puzzle (and the puzzle is missing at least one piece the cat kicked under the couch anyway).”
That is how I would start a keynote to address young teachers at their graduation….there is more I would say, but that is the general gist of the speech. (Anybody need a keynoter for Graduation…I am available….).
This blog is what happens when I wake up with nothing to write and the news doesn’t give me anything interesting to blog about. However, as I look back at what I just wrote, I realize there is some nuggets of wisdom that can be applied to Cheerful Acceptance. The message from above that ties in to Cheerful Acceptance is this….”You will never know everything about successful teaching yourself…It will always just be one more piece in a 1,000,000,000 piece jigsaw puzzle.” The truth of Cheerful Acceptance is that we are all constantly changing. Each day, who we are is different from who we were the day before. Even after you have mastered the 4 steps of Cheerful Acceptance, each day you apply Step 2 – Acknowledge what is true today…without judgment, you will find something different. Our strengths and weaknesses are constantly evolving. At least I hope they are. If we are not constantly evolving and changing, then we are becoming stagnant. So in reality, Cheerful Acceptance is not a goal…but a journey… A life-long journey that we undertake in the hope, not of getting to know ourselves completely, but of getting to know ourselves better. The power is in the journey…not the destination.
So what road will you travel today on your journey through Cheerful Acceptance? What interesting detours will you make today? How is Cheerful Acceptance going to help you to get to know yourself better today?
Have a GREAT day!